I am sorry I couldn’t speak with you yesterday. It was my rest day.
I also observed that people were consumed with you,
So I decided to wait till you could create time for me.
I met you about 4 decades ago.
It was love at first sight.
I was in love with all I was told you could become.
But as decades passed by, it became an abusive home.
The more I loved you, the less I received.
I kept praying and hoping for an intervention but alas,
I have accepted my reality.
You will always exist but I will not so I have to invest my life wisely.
I have to accept the fact that I can love you from afar.
I am also not called to you alone, I was instructed to go ye into the world…
So I have obeyed the instruction.
I still love you but I can’t fix you alone.
All you have become is also not your fault.
You are who we are. Though we hate to admit it.
And if you have to change, we all have to change.
We have to prioritise people preservation and earth preservation.
We have to accept the fact that great Nations are built from emotionally stable families.
Happy diamond jubilee.
May the rest of your life be the best of your years.
Emotional Intelligence in Nigeria
Ever wondered why you can’t say what you feel the way you feel it?
Well, it’s the same way you will not eat a live chicken when you feel like eating chicken,
Or bite a live goat when you feel like eating goat meat.
Words are not meant to be uttered without been refined.
Words are meant to be processed through your cognitive centre.
Uttering words without mental edit exposes your emotional deficiency.
It makes discerning minds know that you are mentally lazy.
You prefer not to think.
You love short cuts.
As you think it, you say it.
That is why you say it as it is or give a piece of your mind.
Lack of filter will make you lose money, clients, prospects and relationships.
Your mouth will affect your credit alerts.
No one appreciates rudeness or anyhowness.
Not even you.
So stop boasting about your spirit of dramatic rudeness.
Embrace mental edit.
Sieve your thoughts into kind words.
Your style of delivery is as important as the content of the delivery.
Invest in your emotional intelligence.
Something interesting happened to me recently.
I reached out to sow a seed into the life of a lady who has been a constant spiritual blessing.
Then she gave me a call but I missed it so I returned it.
She then went ahead to share a sad story on how I hurt her with my words about 6 years ago.
I couldn’t remember the incident. Neither did I forget. I just knew something transpired but I couldn’t remember what.
She on the other hand remembered vividly. She emptied her heart to me by telling me all she brooded over for 6 years.
I took responsibility for the pain by uttering the words.
I was wrong.
I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
I can’t remember the sin but as long as I hurt her. I am sorry.
Life is too short to prove points, act defensively or feed my ego.
I am an emotionally intelligent adult.
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